Category: Carlsbad Divorce Mediation

THE NBA LOCKOUT: THE SKILLS OF A DIVORCE MEDIATOR MIGHT HELP

What would a lawyer handling child custody cases and divorces at the Vista, North County courthouse know about how to settle the National Basketball Association’s lockout of the players, and possibly save the 2011-2012 NBA season? Plenty. As a basketball fan and as a Carlsbad divorce attorney and mediator, I simply cringe when I see …

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North County San Diego Divorce Lawyer/Mediator Weighs In On Domestic Violence Massacre in Seal Beach

As a human being, I was shocked and dismayed to read about a shooting spree at seal Beach hair salon yesterday, an unspeakably horrible crime that left eight people dead and one clinging to life. As a San Diego, North County divorce, child custody and support lawyer and mediator, I was not surprised to learn …

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California Divorce: Staying Out of Court and Out of the Poorhouse

CALIFORNIA DIVORCE: STAYING OUT OF COURT AND OUT OF THE POORHOUSE Please join the founder of Divorce Life Solutions, Thomas D. Ferreira, Esq., and Tammy R. Ferreira, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst™ for an information-packed seminar on how to do your divorce right. At this seminar you will learn: How to cooperate in raising your children …

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Strategies to Reduce Conflict Between Co-Parents

Co-parenting is a difficult enterprise under the best of circumstances. It is likely that if you and your co-parent were able to agree on basic issues such as parenting, that you would not have divorced or separated. The problem is, the family courts expect parents to co-parent, especially where the decree or agreement awards joint …

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Non-Coustodial Fathers are Important

Many readers will be surprised to learn that throughout much of American history, the law presumed that children of divorce would be placed with fathers, not mothers. This presumption lasted through the late 19th century, with the advent of the industrial revolution. After that, society and the courts increasingly saw fathers as the source of …

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Do you have a plan?

If you are divorcing or separating, you are in one of 2 positions: Either you are leaving, or your are being left. Rare is the situation where both spouses have looked at each other and decided to “call it quits.” If you are the “leavor,” likely you have been thinking about taking this step for …

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